Welcome to No Fault Communication™
Get Gotten! Our Philosophy can be summed in this two word phrase. Our main view of all communication, no matter where the venue: business, familial, interpersonal, political, and even spiritual or intrapersonal, once truth can be faced with dignity and with an attitude of discovery, CHANGE OCCURS NATURALLY! How do we do this: learn methods to establish true safety and and build rapport.
"Bringing the humane back to human interactions."
We define communication as a partnership of two or more people arriving at a shared meaning and agreement to act on that meaning in a way that both deem fitting, regardless of the power or position held by any one individual.
In the market place of communication facilitation and problem solving, there is much emphasis on handling difficult people or power talk or verbal self-defense or strategic persuasion. These views have two things in common: they presume the other person as adversary; (like we need more of that in the world), and they are all strategy based! (a strategy is an attempt to manipulate reality in a way different than you find it.) Our approach sees these viewpoints as part of the problem with human interaction, not part of the solution.
- What if we could identify and name the positive intent of the other person?
- How would it change the outcome of your interaction if you could find common ground with the other person?
- Would you make different decisions about a person or situation if you realized that what you were experiencing was a misunderstanding?
- Could influence and persuasion be gained from creating trusting relationships rather than engaging in gamesmanship or hyperbole?
Business and The Workplace
Beneath it all, we are human beings first, not just economic untis nor
production tools. To receive respect, we must learn how to show respect! The No Fault Communication™ approach has as central axiom that everyone has within them a core of positive intention. When that can be accessed, (because many of us aren't always aware of it ourselves) we can unleash blocks to productivity and reclaim vitality and creativity in the workplace. Learn more about our view of Organizational Behavior.
Couples and Family
The family is the most important unit in society. Family relations set the 
tone and models the power relationships for all other interactions in which one will participate when in the adult world. The two pillars of any family are the parents. And before they are parents they are a couple, a team bound in love trying to figure life out as best they can, just like everyone else. In a private No Fault Communication session, two willing partners can:
- Learn how to hear your partner on issues of boundaries, money, resolution, and decision making.
- Uncover the unstated agreements and assumptions that hold your relationship in stasis.
- Relinquish long standing misunderstandings between mates or parents and children by making is safe to tell one's truth.